The battery on this “loaner” is one reason I can’t drive this car; have waited since Feb.8^th for replacement.

Yesterday, Jen and I went to talk with someone who may be able to help. It didn’t pan out, so I will try again today.

Moving on, look at this mess.

I need to finish this “remove wallpaper and paint” project, sooo…

Maxi’s Comments will be on vacation (yeah, right) until June 8-11^th. Until I return—may you love, laugh and be happy.

 May Your Glass Always Be Full
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The thin, sandy-haired, 30yr old collapses onto the sofa and lays his head back. The beer is cold against his chest, his eyes are closed and his gut is on fire. Dan inhales deeply and blows the air through pursed lips, “This ain’t cuttin’ it,” he decides.

Yeah, he could catch a movie on the huge, flat-panel TV, fire up the PC for a game challenge, call his buddies for hot pursuit on the foosball table…

Only he was tired of it all, this is not what he really wanted.  The senior high school math teacher leaned forward, “The kids are great and I like my job, but…”

No one knew that Dan had always wanted to coach the softball team.

The teacher sat up and leaned forward, strands of hair fell across his forehead.  “It’s time to stop whining,” Dan frowned, “time to take some action.” He slid across the sofa and reached for his cell on the table.

“Sandra? I need to ask you something,” he sighed.

The green-eyed, brunette works at the high school in the office, she is also Dan’s fiancée.  “What’s up?” she came back.

The conversation lasted for more than an hour. When it was over Dan jumped to his feet, “I’m going to make this happen.”

This is what Dan did to reach his goal:

• Focused on positive thoughts: I can do this; I can make changes to get what I want.

•  Exercised:  substituted a TV program with a daily run    http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/exercise-and-stress/SR00036

•  Talked with people: once Dan let the cat outta the bag with Sandra, he began to tell everyone — he was surprised at the encouragement he received

•  Studied: Dan spent his free time learning everything he could about softball

•  Showed up at games: the teacher never missed a game, hung out with the players at practice, got advice from the present coach, Walter Stone

•  Filed the paperwork: there was no opening for a softball coach, but Dan didn’t care — he would be next in line when the time came

Fourteen months passed and Dan began to have doubts, until he recalled something his grandpa used to tell him: “Nothing worth having in life comes easy, Danny boy.”

The call came five months later. Coach Stone had decided to retire. Dan accepted, than scrambled to find someone to take his teaching job.

Success didn’t come overnight; Dan lost more games than he won. The new coach was determined, dug his heels in harder. The tide turned in the third game of the second season.

The “Stoners” were set to play their greatest rivalry, the Bears—a team they had never beaten.  When they won by a score of 3-2 it brought the stadium to its feet. As the roar subsided, a call went out over the loudspeaker for Sandra Greene to come onto the field.

In her jeans and team T-shirt, Sandra slowly made her way over to Dan. Her face flushed in the silence, her eyes darted across the bleachers. The coach immediately dropped to one knee, “Sandra, we have dated for nearly two years now, there is no other, you are the one.” Dan stuttered a little, “Will you marry me?”

Drops fell onto Sandra’s cheeks, “Yes,” she whispered.

A roar rose up louder than ever heard in the stadium.

May Your Glass Always Be Half Full
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Some of what I read rang true, yet there was information that I had never heard. Sooo, I went to snopes.com to check it out. Sure ‘nuf, some of it was false.

What I’m getting at is a comment I received about an article I posted January 23, 2012 titled: 12 Rules of Life That Will Never Change

http://maxiscomments.com/2012/01/23/12-rules-of-life-that-will-never-change/

I attributed the list to Bill Gates, which is incorrect. Guess I forgot to check snopes.com on that post. It is Charles J. Sykes who created the list.
http://www.snopes.com/politics/soapbox/schoolrules.asp

I want to thank “Anonymous” for the correction. It may not be critical to dot each i and cross every t, yet it’s important to get the facts right because others depend on me.

As a writer, I learned long ago to appreciate criticism if it’s constructive. I have to wonder about this reader’s intention:

Anonymous                            
johnsonc@sisd.cc
204.38.47.13
Submitted on 2012/05/15 at 12:21 pm
This is not from bill gates. Check snopes.com

Anonymous may be right but needs to change a few things:

Such as, it’s polite to say something positive before going for the “gotcha” on a blogger’s post—shows a little class.

Show your face and put a name to it when you bring someone down. Don’t hide behind a faceless icon without a name. There are thousands with the name Johnson.

As for me, I learned a lesson and need to change also: like double-check the facts before I hit publish.

Oh yes, one final fact…

I respond to all comments unless they say Anonymous.

 May Your Glass Always Be Half Full
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You may want to take a look-see at what my consorts have to say about Change:

Delirious, Maxi Maria/Gaelikaa, Maria SilverFox OCD writer, Padmum, Paul, Ramana, The Old Fossil, Will Knott.

Oh, really.

Think about this…

(granddaughter Brittany inherited my old PC)

• Topic: That darned topic. I would pull my hair out over this one at first. There are those who simply write about their day, events in their life, or their thoughts for the day.

Weeell, this works for me occasionally. Still, I like to be careful of how much I reveal when it comes to personal information. After all, this is the Internet and one can get in trouble quickly when your words go out to all the world.

• Style: This is a big one; doesn’t matter if you’re writing a post or a book.
  You can first write an outline to the nth degree, and go from there. Oooor, you can do like me, hit the keyboard and let the words fly.

I have found it is not what you write … it’s how you say it. Something like this: I have a cat vs. I have a huge, black cat who thinks he’s a panther.

• Images: Let’s talk about images. Can we talk about images?? First ya gotta find something that fits your topic. It almost always needs a little tweaking. And we can’t forget to give credit to the one we stole, uh borrowed, it from.

That last part gives me fits ‘cause I’m all about the writing. Sooo many times I’m done and ready to go but forgot to give credit and have to go back and take care of the problem. These days I put the text in the image, works pretty good.

• Patience: This is extremely important. If I zing along in a hurry to write a post, a page, anything … it will be a mess. Then it takes longer to finish because it has to be done twice.

My solution is to start early. I’m up at 5am most mornings and “on it.” Big cup o’ java, a healthy dish of enthusiasm and I’m good to go. If you’re not a morning person set a time, like clocking in, and stick to it.

• Rewrite: Rewrite tops the list. Nothing is more critical than to write, write and write again. I will write one page in a novel as many as seven or eight times.

When my son first started racing motorcycles it was tough when he lost. “I just need more “seat time,” he would sigh. And there it is…

Seat time is what we need to achieve the magic in our writing.

May Your Glass Always Be Half Full
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